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Be sure YOU know the latest dating dos and don'ts.Back in the day — before women became more independent (thanks, women's rights movement! For the most part, dating was easier: A man courted a woman and both of them knew the end goal if courtship went well: marriage.
She was pretty informal and laid-back about it; she and the kids pretend-fought a lot but they (grudgingly) conceded that she was the Mom and got to make final decisions (while openly rolling their eyes or giggling about some of those decisions) and she didn't mind them seeing her as a mortal and fallible person making the in-charge decisions and didn't act all authoritarian, and so they negotiated day to day and the kids grew up and seem pretty well-adjusted.
I like kids and I'd be OK with doing it again, although that would mean reversing the age dynamics at this point (I'm 53).
I also didn’t have to budget and sacrifice for others, so I could easily drop dollars on designer bags, shoes and clothes–if I opted to spend the day at the shopping mall.
Now, that I’m on the other side of the fence and co-parenting the most terrific toddler you’ll ever meet, I want my experiences to positively impact singles dating someone with children.
Dating someone who has a child from a previous marriage introduces many complicated issues.
Get your relationship off to a good start by considering these common scenarios. Is it OK to meet him now or should I wait until I have a better feel for the potential of this relationship before making introductions? Most experts agree that you should wait until your relationship shows signs of becoming serious before making introductions.Children (especially young children) quickly can become attached to someone new and, consequently, may be confused or hurt if the relationship ends.If your date wants you to meet her son right away, suggest that she introduce you as a friend.Question for both men and women..you meet someone and you guys hit it off, then he/she tells you they have a kid or kids...that an instant turn off or red flag for you?would you continue seeing them knowing that you're not really interested in becoming a pseudo parent figure to their offspring?I “met” Deesha Phillywaw through her book Co-parenting 101: Helping Your Kids Thrive in Two Households After Divorce.Tags: Adult Dating, affair dating, sex dating